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Nije postojala dilema da li je abortus legalan ili nije, o tome nismo ni razmišljali, jer…

by klitmit 5 November 2020

Biljana Zlatanovic

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I am Biljana, feminist, language lover, and travel addict. Currently based in Montpellier, South of France, I started a blog mainly about gender equality, as one of the urgent issues. Welcome and I hope you enjoy the ride!

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How to Stay in Colombia for a year
3 Best Ted Talks About Female Pleasure
The menstruation cycle throughout history
Faculty of medicine in Montpellier and its first female student
Body positive movement or when I am told that I am brave

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This is much younger me 🤩 that had just arrived

This is much younger me 🤩 that had just arrived to Bogota. Full of dreams, hopes and expectations of what the life will look like in this South American country. 🌎 It was 2012 and nobody understood why I was going there.
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But I felt inside of me that I had to live in South America at least for some time, that something was waiting for me there. And I was not wrong!
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Instead of planned one school year, I finally stayed for 3! When the first one was coming to an end, I felt like I did not have enough of Colombia, like there were so many other things I wanted to see, smell, taste. And as I was reflecting on that, a school where I was an intern at the time, offered me to stay the following school year as a regular teacher. I saw that as a confirmation of the fact that I should definitely stay.
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But I wanted to see what else there was and started looking for other schools, knocking on doors. As it usually is, a friend recommended me at a school where he worked and I got an interview and got in. Now that I think about it, it was probably the worst test class that I had ever taught. A tough crowd of few boys that were trying to make my life impossible seemed like something that would not end up in me getting that job. But I did. ☺️ And I was so happy. Because this school was very special. I learned new teaching methods, I met incredible people and had a connection with my students that I would never trade for anything in the world. 🤗

This is an experience that many can live. 🌻 I recently spoke to a friend of mine who was going to Mexico City to teach. I gave him tips and tricks of what to look for, what he can expect, what mistakes not to make. And then I wrote an article, because some of my experiences could maybe give you an idea of your next move. It doesn’t have to be South America, it could be anywhere in the world. Or it could just be an interesting read of how someone got to South America with very little money in her pocket and got to travel a lot.

Bon voyage! ☀️

#colombia #klitmit #aiesec

There is this belief that rapes happen in dark cor

There is this belief that rapes happen in dark corner and that it is a complete stranger that performs them. And although girls and women are often afraid late at night from unknown men being potential danger, there are still many more rapes by a person that we know. Crazy right?
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This statistic is from two years ago. When we speak about rape, there are always more than what the statistics shows because many do not get reported, so we cannot really know how many there really are.
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There are still a lot of domestic, non consensual sexual relations that we do not count as rapes, because it's the husband. Consent is the key. But first of all understanding what consent actually is. Really getting it.

I recently saw a graffiti that says it all. ''To give in is not to consent.'' Saying ok after someone has been convincing you is not a consent.

#rape #rapeculture #rapeisreal #klitmit

In Norway, the women's beach handball team is tire

In Norway, the women's beach handball team is tired of playing in bikinis! 🥵

During the European beach handball championships, the Norwegian women's team decided to refuse a regulation outfit that was considered impractical, sexist and sexualizing.

According to an article by Foxnews, the rules require women to wear "a bikini with a tight sports bra top, with deep openings for the arms, and whose bottom should not be more than ten centimeters on the sides.🧐

Extremely marked differences in coverage, and rooted in the way male gaze objectifies female bodies, which cannot be perceived without being sexualized - even in the midst of international sports competition.
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Silver medalist at the 2018 World Championships and gold medalist at the 2017 European Championships, the Norwegian women's team is doing brilliantly on the sand courts. But at the European Championships, which ended last week, the Norwegians made news because the players decided to refuse the outfits imposed by the International Handball Federation.
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The female players of the national team, supported by the Norwegian Handball Association, decided to come to the official competition dressed differently, replacing the shorts with more covering cyclists as in the photo.
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The manager of the French Beach Handball team Valerie Nicolas supported Norway, explaining that in France, the team had lost players because of this outfit!!!
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"The players tell me that they do not feel comfortable, that they feel naked and observed."
Although they planned to play the European Championships in bikinis, the Norwegians were ultimately forced to play in the bikini bottoms they refused. 🤬

Indeed, the wearing of non-regulatory outfits is punishable by a fine, the team initially had to pay the 50 euros per person and per game penalties.
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A revealing event of how difficult it is still for sportswomen, in 2021, to be free of the way they dress: too covered or not enough, it seems that the only criterion that counts is not practicality, but rather that of the look of the spectator ... male.

news from @madmoizelledotcom

#handballnorway #klitmit #sexistoutfits

Battered Woman Syndrome Few weeks ago, Valerie Ba

Battered Woman Syndrome

Few weeks ago, Valerie Bacot who had killed her very violent husband, was released. This trial was hugely covered by all media in France because something quiet revolutionary has happened.

This is the first time that battered woman syndrome has been recognized in a case in France!

Swipe to find out what this syndrome actually means, why it is extremly important to understand it and how women that are traumatized by their husband's violence are finally taken into consideration during their trial.

#valeriebacot #valériebacot #klitmit

Women’s sexual pleasure 🤩 Research shows tha

Women’s sexual pleasure 🤩

Research shows that we, women use our partner’s sexual satisfaction as a measure for our own. While men are more likely to measure their satisfaction by their own orgasm. 😲😲😲

In the largest survey ever conducted on American sexual behavior, women reported feeling pain in their sexual encounters 30% of the time. 🥴 They also used words like ‘’depressing’’, ‘’humiliating’’, ‘’degrading’’. Young men never used such words when describing sex.

Women would say that they feel sexually satisfied when they do not feel pain (?!?!)

How devastating! What annoys me most about this is that some might even say that women simply biologically cannot have the same level of satisfaction! Well, not true! 🤯

Another study published in the Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy shows that men need to ask women what they want since female sexual pleasure is very diverse.

More than 36% of women reported needing clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm, while LESS THAN A FIFTH reported that intercourse alone was sufficient.

When asked about their ideal techniques, 2/3 preferred direct clitoral stimulation. Of those that preferred indirect stimulation, the majority preferred touching "through the skin above the hood," while a smaller number preferred touching "through both lips pushed together (like a sandwich)." 🍓

Something else most women agreed on: light to medium pressure on the genitals is best. Only 1 in 10 said they preferred firm pressure during stimulation. Not really what boys see in porno.

Today I am bringing you an article about women’s sexual pleasure through 3 TED Talks. Link is in my bio.

#klitmit #womenssexuality

About last weekend #klitmit

About last weekend

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According to @unwomen 119 countries have never had

According to @unwomen 119 countries have never had a woman leader. This information stroke me most.
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Only 21 per cent of government ministers were women, with only 14 countries having achieved 50 per cent or more women in cabinets.
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At the current rate, gender equality in the highest positions of power will not be reached for another 130 years.
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Another 130 years...
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What suprised you most?

#klitmit #genderequality

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